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Discipline – a bridge

Meaning of  discipline in dictionary is “ system of rules of conduct or method of practice”. In every walk life there is principle, rules which teach how to conduct, behave in the periphery of environment a person lives. Discipline is one of the fundamentals of smooth sailing of ship of the environment one adopts. Hence we have to adhere the rules strongly in order to move comfortably, peacefully but we sometimes  fall  in the hands of elements who believe in principle of indiscipline perhaps they are the product of environment  wherein they are born and brought up. Because of such elements ships of environment we travel sink. Whatever profession we choose, wherever we live, whoever we came across  in different walks of life, discipline is the most powerful tool through which we can succeed in passing our lives comfortably and successfully. Mike Ditka said “ Success is not measured by money or power or social rank. Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace” 

Gautam Budha said “ To enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to ones family, to bring peace to all, one must first discipline, and control one’s own mind. If a man control his mind, he can find the way of enlightenment, and all wisdom and virtue naturally come to him”

Discipline starts right from the time a child reaches to an age where he begins to understand the things through the activities in surrounding, observes the things happening around, all such things are based on discipline, a child observes and goes through. If a child is nurtured as per the good rules he grows healthy, he emerges virtuous, he possesses a feeling of reverence to others. Education of good discipline a child learns only in the lap of his parents. Though the things such as how to eat, how to drink, how to sleep, how to speak etc look trivial but these are the foundation stone of structure of disciplined human beings. A good disciplined parents can impart good discipline to their children.

A Student can not get through in competition unless he plans his study time, allocate hours for studies, make a schedule for his daily activities, What time he should up get up, what time he should go on bed, how to give more emphasis on the subject he feels weak and how to strengthen more the subject he wants to make career upon. A student can be winner even after having limited resources provided he is disciplined.

Similarly  People in any profession irrespective of their different areas have to be punctual in reaching the office on time, plan for the days meeting, sort out the pending works, follow the other office rules. Some times professional may have to face the circumstances he is forced to deviates from the rules of office at that very juncture his knowledge about the repercussion of being undisciplined save him from plunging in crisis.

Every profession has its own rules. Doing promises during the election is rules set by system of politics hence politicians can not deviate from promising in front of gatherings. They can not say that development of his areas is work of one or two days, If they say that within a month they can make their constituency developed they breaks the rules. They become undisciplined and if the forgets their promises after the election. People become disciplined since they root out such politicians who can not stick to their promises and become undisciplined. This is famous saying “ Discipline is learnt in school of devastation” When a person faces devastation he gets disciplined and shun the activities he commits when he had not gone through such  phases. For instance when a cook gets undisciplined. He prepares dishes not as per the system applied in making that particular dish such as putting red chilli powder continuously beyond proportion which instead of making dish spicy causing distasteful or jeopardize the function of stomach  but immediately cook gets disciplined when punitive action is taken because of his indifferent attitude towards his responsibility. He thinks that he might also loose a job therefore he immediately follows the rules. Lucius Anneus Seneca said “No evil propensity of the human heart is so powerful that it may not be subdued by disciplined” Reformers, experts in different fields often introduce and bring various rules to control the anarchy, in order to  make environment disciplined. A ruler of the country can never continue to be ruler if  he is not disciplined towards his people .

 Accomplishment of goal can never be achieved by becoming undisciplined instead it creates chaos, anarchy. Some elements because of lack of knowledge follows the path but the time comes they have to face its negative impact. Such elements are called gambler since they want to be become richer in short time through a little effort. Discipline takes people towards the target who believes in. Jim Rohn rightly said“ Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment”

Successful are those who stick to discipline in both good and bad circumstances. We often see people getting upset, loosing their attitude, breaking the rules which they followed in their lives. It is human tendency to loose patience when they don’t achieve what they set for themselves consequently they get undisciplined and take steps which further aggravate the situation instead of sorting it out. We should control our mind so that we walk peacefully on path. Vince Lombardi  said “ Its easy to have faith in yourself and have discipline when you are a winner, when you are number one. what you got to have is faith and discipline when you are not a winner”

Hardly a person want to be unhealthy, ugly, destitute so in order to achieve  he tries to follow the rules through which he could save himself suffering from all such things. On the contrary some think differently  they think that through undisciplined acts he could save himself from all such things…….
Abraham Joshua Heschel said “Self respect is the fruit of discipline, the sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself “


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