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God of our own character!

In ancient Greece, Athens produced intellectuals, philosophers, academician on the other hand Sparta produced warriors and war lords. Parents sent their children to Athens to make them academicians on the other hand children took tricks of war in Sparta as per the wishes of their parents. War lords such as Alexander the great etc and philosophers such as Aristotle and Plato etc are the products of these two cities. Teachers of respective faculties nursed and imparted them specific attributes which enabled them not only enlightened themselves but spread the knowledge of wisdom, shown the exemplary of courage and bravery. Hence it is not incongruous to say that these centers were the school of character foundation.  

A character is distinguished by the attributes one possesses but this is also the fact  that childhood is not only the best age of formation or say foundation of any specific attributes but this is process  one  gets it the way one moves in ones life.  Goeth said “ Character develops itself in the stream of life’

System of nature has created various character such as son, daughter, father , mother, uncle, doctor, Engineer , politicians etcetera in order to perform on the stage ie world  but the real character which creates environment pleasant, worth living or hell  is the attributes, traits which each and every characters on the stage possess. We often hear people using the words egoist, arrogant, humble, honest, soft spoken, genial etcetera these all traits we somewhat inherit by birth but we also develop these through ‘ stream of life as  Goeth said. The way  masons build our houses brick by brick similarly with the passage of time we develop traits, habits in ourselves. The more we work on our character, the way we want to nourish  ourselves we find the results  in form of our acts and this very acts give us name of , Good Character, Bad Character etcetera. Our  attributes, traits influence on whatever the steps we take in our day today basis. American Chef and Author Anthony  Bourdain said “ The way we make the omelet reveals our character’

System of nature  made the stage and in order to create drama, suspense, joy and sorrow they unleashed various traits in water, soil, air since human beings are made of such elements although traits  which are concealed in such elements are invisible but oozed out when a human being plays the role on stage. One side system of nature imparts traits of geniality, humbleness in some one, on the other hand immediately meticulously allocate rude and rough attributes for another since only then true taste of drama can be enjoyed on the stage by the audience who have to also play the role of different characters on different stage at different point of time.

System of nature is also very generous it also imparts  immense power  to performers to choose the character one wants to play on stage. Now the scuffle begins in pursuit of getting the best role, dominating role in stage. Thus we  fight for the role, system of nature enjoys this fighting sometimes it bows down before the aspirants who although don’t deserve for  enjoying the trait but it happens since stage needs twist, suspense, Comedy. Nature let loose the condition, violate its own norm while distributing the traits. When these same  characters play their role audience are coerced to laugh, they enjoy their traits, characters on stage, make the environment pleasant on the other hand when other characters who differ their roles role decide to malign, assassinate those character, scene gets morose, gloomy. Some challenge the system of nature and become system in themselves. ))

We should not deviate from the belief that we are god of our own character. The way we want to be we are able to become provided that we should have guts to scuffle, courage to challenge the system we live in.  

We should concentrate on our attitude, on our mental state as it shapes our character . We should not deviate from the straight path which creates peace, harmony,  since some in our surrounding always try to weaken your mental state. Some want to assassinate your character through various ways, some of us cope up the conspiracy some fall prey to it since such elements challenged the system of nature and became themselves a system. Albert Ainstain said “ Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character’ One has rightly said that at point of time situation dictates your mental state and even after your great endeavor you fail to survive since situation is controlled by those elements who snatches power from nature to exploit those who are left underprivileged by the circumstances.

In brief, this tug of war among the characters will remain continue till the stage is alive but here there is need to give a little space in our house of thought what Billy graham said “ When wealth is lost, nothing is lost when health is lost, something is lost, when character is lost, all is lost’


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