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No one wants to be a loser. Everyone wants to be a winner. Everyone wants to be a leader in his respective field he chooses for himself. Some emerge winner some hang in the way and some fall flat. All of us make our efforts in our own capacity or according to the target what we set while striving to achieve the goal. Winner says he didn’t achieve what he had set for himself looser blame on impediments, obstacles which came in the way. Winner believe in ‘sky is the limit’ looser believe in unfavorable circumstances, bad luck, blame on surrounding which cause him of his defeat. Hence we can say that  looser is fact timid if we look at  famous saying ‘fortune favors the brave’.  

To achieve a set target is not easy it needs immense patience, perseverance, indefatigable guts, endeavor, right approach, intelligence etcetra. All of us don’t have all aforesaid features while pursuing the goal that is why very few are satisfied with their efforts out of innumerable striver. Satisfaction is not an appropriate word for achiever because they believe in Sky is the limit. During the course of their search for their goal they leave indelible mark in surrounding which we name them winner or achiever. Looser lack ability to ascertain his weakness hence instead of striving to turn their weakness into strength they indulge in blame game that is why people put cap of looser on their heads.     

To fail in achieving the goal doesn’t imply that goal is not achievable. Instead give a thought to such failure and visualize it as an elusive. Failure gives a message to doers that success is dodging because a doer is not well prepared. We need to figure out the arsenals through which we can catch the success which has been dodging and finally bring us in the queue of failures at the same time we mustn’t feel ashamed or disheartened of welcoming them as they apprise  our shortcomings, weakness, and become an eye opener. Nobody is successful in his very first or even many attempts. Failure is message sent by lord success, one who obeys it and work sincerely over it become darling of success one who fails to understand the message remains far away to the goal one aspires. Instead of cursing our efforts, luck, our approach we need a string which has enough potential to give us taste of song of success.

Introspection is one of the chord of an instrument of Success - Failure through which we can compose beautiful song that is success. Failure doe not choke up the way but provide space through which we visualize our unaccomplished target. Introspection fills the gap and connects to our target. When we realize that we fail to get what we had set the goal we also need to realize mulling over the shortcoming, mistakes, directionless step etcetera . This is what introspection is. Our failure requires same amount of contemplation, thought, initiative, anticipation what we had before we begun our journey in achieving the target. Failure is just like pause towards win we have to capitalize that pause by applying introspection and materialize what we learn from introspection. Failure provides an opportunity of Self evaluation, Self appraisal, self examination which ultimately take looser towards goal. Those who are far sighted grab the opportunity others keep playing blame game and the cap of looser sitting top on their head enjoy seeing such narrow minded crying, cursing, blaming.    

Self-evaluation, Self examination is very tough task because very few have guts to make out our own fault, shortcomings but this is what failure wants from strivers, doers. Once we are able to find out our weakness we succeed to great extent in placing ourselves in category of winner. Failure like is respite in a journey towards attainment of goal introspection imparts energy, reinvigorate provided we honestly introspect ourselves. Nothing is impossible doesn’t mean everything is possible but yes we can reach near to our target  For instance when  we make target of  saying ‘sky is limit’  our efforts, indefatigable courage help us to reach at other planets and we enjoy and proud of such achievements.     

Introspection put a question mark on previous efforts. Introspection wants an answer because Success always waits for those who introspect. We need not to be worry or ashamed of our mistakes, wrongdoings rather all such elements pave the way for our journey to the goal if we make an effort sincerely to regain what we still could not get . Failure is not full stop but step forward towards success and introspection pushes up if we find ourselves rudderless and frustrated. 


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