Don’t let success
defeat you
In
simple words ‘attainment of a goal which one intends to achieve is called
success. But attaining the goal is not so easy it needs a lot of effort,
planning, consistency and determination. Success becomes easy to achieve only
when we meet the requirements which success sets for itself. Goal is in fact desire
and as we know human desire is hardly fulfilled. The more we aspire to get, the
more our aspiration to get more increases. In fact every step what we take and later
achieve is success when we wake up in morning and go on bed at night is also
sort of success since during this period we make an effort, make plan, use our
conscious and come back on the same place from where we started our days. Our every
conscious steps and its accomplishment is success.
Same zeal
and the efforts we have to apply in order to preserve the success the way we exert
in achieving it. Sometimes we lose thread of success from our slight mistake
and our this little mistake is to forget the fact that we have exerted hard to
achieve the target hence bearing in mind the fact that present state need even more
efforts to preserve that position than the efforts, verve we have made before.
Our every triumph needs our next planning, our new strategy and our new efforts
to attain a new milestone in our life. Some fall down and some surmount while
pursuing the success we can give name of success like a monster since a great
strength, immense patience, indefatigable guts and a lot of efforts are needed
to capture over it because it can never let it be subjugated by sluggish ,weak and
indifferent people. Once we sit on success we can find ourselves ahead and on top.
we find ourselves in a circle of winners, victorious where surroundings look up
at us enviously. Sometimes we can get success in short cut method but success
is not stupid it knows how people have overcome it so it always waits in an
opportunity to ditch such successful people because it never sleeps it always
remains awake. Nobody is inborn rider of the monster but one has to strive to
overcome it through hard work and sticking to the goal.
Why do we
say that success has never been forever partner of any one’s life. Even it betrays
too. Because when we don’t abide by the rules, norms success sets for itself it
begins to make distance from us and a time comes when it disappears leaving us crestfallen
. We can assume the power, strength and dimension of success from the level of
our efforts, our planning, our sweat and our determination that we exert in
achieving it.. How powerful success is that it makes some frustrated, send them
in depression, bring them on verge of collapse and even it doesn’t hesitate in
eating up life.
The way
we are cautious, alert, the way we strive and sweat for achieving the success
similarly we have to be cautious in maintaining the success so that it remains with us for
long period. Success associate always with those who follow the path, a
straight, honest path, a sincere effort and determination. We must have watched
football/hockey match where a team leading by 3-0 and almost going to win suddenly at the last moment of game it
trails by 3-4. Reason is slackness of spirit. Trailing team didn’t give their
full effort what they had given earlier which consequently brought them on
verge of defeat. In cricket, a team requires only 15 runs to win from 6 over
with 4 wickets in hand but suddenly wickets begin to fall in quick succession
and eventually almost winning team has to lose the match. Reason is our
indifference attitude towards maintaining our position what we have attained
earlier. Success and defeat in our life is also like game. We need not to be
indifferent to our goal, goal is not mere reaching towards the target but
staying longer at that position through the same spirit, same verve, putting
same effort and consistency is a real success.
Success
itself causes of sending us in circle of defeat. Although no one likes to go
towards defeat but when we reach in that circle we feel sad but defeat enjoys.
Defeat thanks it sister Success for throwing in its circle and enjoys looking
at us crying, cursing oneself or others, making other responsible for our
failure etc. but we hardly realize that it is our mistake, it is our inert
attitude, it is our indifference, lack of determination and carelessness that
weaken our control over success hence let the success becoming stronger and we
have made ourselves frail, weak. So one has rightly said “Failure will pass
away but don’t let success defeat you”
End
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