A small effort
Social compulsion, emulation, competition in surroundings, willing to surpass others in pursuit of materialistic race in fact determine the destiny and these are undeniable realities of our lives. Very few are able to reach on the threshold of desired destiny which they decide for themselves otherwise majority of them get strayed in the way or concede defeat eventually. This is the fact that we either impose the things upon ourselves or coerced to adopt the things due to pressure of circumstances and incidence because we lack enough determination to deter those elements which later on become instrumental in making our destiny. Sometimes we are coerced to follow others, Sometimes we get fascinated by glittering in surroundings and begin to follow it blindly without doing self assessment. In fact, imitating or following footsteps of winner is not wrong, competing others in achieving the goal is not wrong but at the same time we should also accept the truth that we can not run away from our instinct, our interest and affinity which demands something else. We always look around to explore new world, a new destiny for ourselves, surroundings and the environment also show the ways and resources through which we could reach to the destination. Everyone makes an effort at his own level, everyone wants to leave a mark in his respective field in brief no one leave no stone unturned but success always keep them eluding in most of cases. We can never deny that luck certainly plays a vital role in all walks of life but problem is that we fail to figure out how to get favour from luck.
We are always in search of light, inspiration which could take us towards our destination, a destination which is secure and satisfactory. We get our selves motivated, take a lot of inspiration from incidents and happening which is taking place in surroundings and try to move accordingly. We always study so many books on motivation and inspiration, peep at the lives of successful persons in order to get mantra of success. Why we do it because our surrounding force us to take lesson, learn as to how they succeeded in their lives. Accordingly we begin to imitate them too. But the question emerges do we get desired result ? Do we succeed in making our desired destiny? Very few of them do succeed. Why ? Because such people not only peek at successful stories of others but they try to find their own shortcomings and flaws.
Affinity, Interest, fondness which reside inside a person is deciding factors of success and failures. In fact these factors take us to the right path and even stops us from being misled by the false emulation, save us from falling prey of glittering in surroundings, and encourage us to face the social compulsion by self assessment, juxtapose our inner instincts against all those factors which have enough potential to slave us. We normally follow what we see, we do learn and listen but hardly pay attention to what our instinct wants to say, wants us to do which causes of big impediment in accomplishing the destiny. Sometimes we are coerced to obey our elders, sometimes we follow our seniors, sometimes we are forced to compete our colleagues, sometimes we are misled by even by false fabricated stories but we hardly give time to look inside what the staunch counsellor residing in us want to say. Our passion is very much conducive in enhancing chances of reaching towards the destination but it will happen only when we choose the target of our interest. Passion of pursuing goal which is result of impact of surrounding clashes with our instinct, our interest which ultimately causes of getting strayed.
Our small effort to listen what our instinct is saying, a small effort to self appraisal and paying heed to our interest can certainly make the target easy provided we exert same passion, same enthusism what we do while achieving the target which is result of social compulsion and emulation. Choose the field we have interest instead of what people in surrounding forced or inspired us to do. Each area is as important and prospective as what we think about a particular one.
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