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                                                          Vicissitudes of Life
                                               

Insecurity, Uncertainty, Failure, Disappointment, Frustration  etc are the one aspect of life on the other hand Success, Happiness, tranquility, Satisfaction are the other aspects of it. Swami Vivekand Said ' we are responsible for what we are, and whatever we wish ourselves to be, we have power to make ourselves if what we are now has been the result of our own action'....'  It implies that person is himself responsible for his plight and  Success. Failures, Frustration, Despondency  are the result of ones own misdeeds.

 Change in one's life is imminent and changes with positive result is called achievements. Some fail to achieve positive result because of lack of right approach to their target. when we fail to get desired result we  attribute our shortcomings on others. Why ? Because we realize that  some might have put hurdle that is the reason we couldn't get the target. Is this thinking right?  Not at all, In competitive world everyone wants to surpass others as per his  level of thinking and perspicacity. People who have wisdom to control the action and give right direction to their steps succeed in achieving the goal. Setting high goal and prepare oneself accordingly to achieve the goal is secret of success. we see most of us think high but don't prepare ourselves accordingly .Fundamental of success is planning, positive approach, and its execution with  sheer thought of contentment. In case,  results don’t come up to the mark, due to lack of planning, lack of positive approach or due to  mistimed  execution, at that juncture contentment can give new hope and solace.

Decision making is also one of the basic fundamentals behind every success. Right decision gives fruitful results. For taking any decision we should take into account all pro & con and the repercussion thereof . People sometimes say that they could not get desired result because circumstances were not favorable. It is true sometimes external factors do deter your planning since such elements get stronger because they have worked  hard  in making plan and  executed their plan meticulously hence they succeed in their targets. In fact  they are not responsible for our failure rather our preparation is not up to that level we could cope up the hurdle meticulously.

Preparation, planning, Self Assessment and then action assure of  fruitful outcome in our every step we take.. Sometimes incidents, happenings mar our planning , at that point of time perseverance, self confidence, believing in preparation and plan what we have made for ourselves give ray of hope. Life is like game such as cricket, football etc, happiness, prosperity, satisfaction are its rewards. if participants of the game are not well prepared and if they are not trained as per the principal of  game, they fail in getting reward .Similarly our preparation, Planning and its proper execution  shows that we are efficient to get the rewards ie, success, peace, tranquility happiness in life.

Success, Peace ,satisfaction don’t come easily. It needs sincere effort, dedication, Perseverance and foremost thing is consistency. We should stick to the goal,  be a little flexible in approach with the situation and circumstances but  never loose hope never deviate from the plan, never budge from the target.

Our life is like coin. Success and Failure are two sides of coin. Law of nature keeps  tossing up the coin, sometimes we go through the side as we wish, sometimes it goes against our wishes. We should also believe in the fact that life is also bit puzzle. Some  are born intelligent, some are born dunce hence every participants in game can not be  good player of the game of life. Some struggle hard to bring their life on track of happiness, on the other hand some succeed in bringing their life on track of happiness easily. Why ? 

Nature has created  various kind of lands on earth, fertile, semi fertile, Barren, Semi barren. Human mind is similar to that land. Barren land is not left unused but expediency of nature behind creating barren land may be to utilize for other purpose. Some  even  work hard  on  barren land so that make it worthwhile. Dull human mind can also be worthwhile if we work on it even though it can not change into like fertile land  but its status can be changed. Nature sometimes also makes mistakes that is why it shares bit power to its creatures to rectify it. 

Life can be defined in present context  in two words ie, Ups & Down. Ups....Ups....Ups... in life is also to n extent reality. Why ? Because we should also believe in famous quote ' Every rider can not be jockey' Some are genetically much stronger so obviously the performance  of such persons will be better than those who are genetically weak. Genetically  strong people monopolize the surroundings by dint of their characteristics imported by system of nature. At the same time Change or interval in  is part of the game of life. When we look into the mirror we find changes in  our complexion, in  bodies with the passage of time. We look in surrounding we find changes. Each h and every elements in universe is interlinked so every things in surrounding keeps changing. This is system of nature. 

Contentment, Perseverance, persistent, Consistency and  foremost thing is integrity plays crucial role in giving solace even  if one passes through the set back in ones life. Enjoy every moment of life keeping in mind the fact, to achieve everything what we think about, is not possible  and loosing hope is not solution  rather we should  keep trying in achieving the target even though it looks uphill task bearing in mind the proverb that nothing is impossible. Life is  name of struggle and it eventually bow down before those  who are sincere in their efforts................

               
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