Sense of Insecurity & the Way out
Everyone
has a dream of secure future therefore in order to get desired result one makes
indefatigable effort. But the fact is that the more we strive to be secured the
more it creates a sense of insecurity inside. Uncertainty in surroundings, lack
of self confidence and attitude of ‘take it easy’ gives birth to a feeling insecurity.
Sometimes sense of insecurity itself becomes one of the biggest reasons for
further aggravating the mindset. Vin Diesel has rightly said that Its
insecurity that is always chasing you and standing in the way of your dreams. ’Negative
mindset brings negative result but those who set feeling of insecurity aside and
strive to overcome impediment of negativity pave the way to some extent of a
secure tomorrow. Irish Novelist Joyce Cary said ‘For good and evil, man is free
creative spirit. This produces the very queer world we live in, a world in
continuous creation and therefore continuous change and insecurity. People with
positive mindset capitalize on all the impediments and act according to the
requirement of circumstances thus they are large extent able to diminish fear
of insecurity. Harold W.Dodds an American educator said ‘It’s an old adage that
the way to be safe is never to be secure..each one of us requires the spur of
insecurity to force us to do our best.’ Feeling
of insecurity opens the eyes to visualize tomorrow, prepare to be safe, make a
plan for facing impending adversity. Stacy
London said “Don’t let fear or insecurity stop you from trying new things,
believe in yourself, Do what you love and most importantly be kind to others
even if you don’t like them.’ Although
demon of insecurity always follows even after our great endeavor to evade from
its fear. Scuffle between hope of secure tomorrow and feeling of insecurity
continues in our mind due to our ignorance and apathy to find out the reason
and search for solution. Salman Rushdie said“ There is no such thing as perfect
security, only varying levels of insecurity.’
Impact of insecurity on our life both emotionally and physically can be
ascertained by our acts, our gestures and our behavior since all these reflect
our mental state. Some tackle insecurity firmly by controlling negative mental
state on the other hand some fall prey of its, subjugated by its tentacles
resulting creating further chaos, unrest. Naomi Campbell said ‘Anger is
manifestation of a deeper issue …..and that, for me based on insecurity, self
esteem and loneliness’ Debra Winger said ‘ Most bad behavior comes from
insecurity’
Albert
Ainstain said ‘It stands to the everlasting credit of science that by acting on
the human mind it has overcome man’s insecurity before himself and before
nature’
Each one
of us endeavors hard to be safe, happy and secure in every walk of life hence accordingly
we make plan, prepare ourselves, try to take steps in proper direction in order
to get positive result. Way out from feeling of insecurity is though not easy
but it is also not so difficult in fact it needs immense determination, hard
work, learning from mistakes and consistency in what we plan. At times we encounter
with such situation where we find ourselves directionless, unsafe, in that situation
our determination, stick ability and positivity have enough potential to turn
our fear into fearlessness. The way we see insecurity an obstacle in our dream
similarly it can also help in materializing our dream provided we accept the reality
that’ world in continuous creation and therefore continuous change and
insecurity’ hence be prepared, be positive, have determination to face
insecurity which keeps emerging with new development in our surrounding. Instead
of falling prey of fear of insecurity one must try to overcome it through
adopting new ideas with the changing circumstances for secure and better tomorrow,
believe that insecurity is step forward for a secure future.
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