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         Circums…Time and Tense        Time & Tense is on of the essential parts of book of grammar of all languages so if we fail to understand it we can neither speak. write correctly nor understand the literature properly. Language does not remain language it dies if we fail to learn the lesson of Time & Tense. Similarly, Circums..Time and Tense is one of the essential lessons of grammar of our life which anyhow need to be understood and observe meticulously. If we fail to qualify in this test of Circums..Time and Tense, Life remains no more.   In fact we should try to excel in and figure out how to overcome this difficult lesson like other chapter of grammar of life  only then we may be able to not only control but succeed to an extent in bringing a balance in journey of life. Creator of all languages is human beings so we very well know how to excel in overcoming the lesson of Time & Tense t...

Habits die hard People keep changing their hobbies with the time and circumstances but if anyone of us get addicted to any particular hobby it becomes difficult to quit it easily that is why one had said ‘ Habits die hard.’ Although I disliked company of one of my close acquaintances , Shahrukh, who was known for his cynical behavior and fastidious attitude nevertheless I have always enjoyed his logic and reasons which he used to put during the arguments whenever we used to sit together. In fact it would not be wrong to say that he had great habits of maligning others and enjoyed unnecessary criticism on the issues which neither pertains to him nor me. But for the last few months we did not see each other and when we saw him few days back I could not believe on my eyes. He had become so feeble that I was hesitating to even enquire about him. Shahrukh gave a smile as if inviting me to come and enquire about him. I hesitatingly asked him ‘ Shahrukh, how did it hap...

One of the realities.... Despite realizing the fact that each one of us makes one's own strategies, planning at one’s own level in order to control the circumstances which directly or indirectly may affect daily life. Sometimes we do succeed in overcoming the circumstances and sometimes we find ourselves helpless before the circumstances. Sometimes things take a turn in such a way that our all strategies and planning, self confidence and endeavor lose their significance. Sometimes even our calculated and well planned efforts give such disappointing results which we had never expected. Consequently we get frustrated, stressed, and eventually reach on a stage when sadness completely subjugates us. Even though we leave no stone unturned in finding out the reasons, shortcomings, flaws for our plight and frustration and to an extent we also do succeed in identifying some of the weak streaks which causes of our stress ‘ unpredictability in life’ is also one of the streaks and rea...

Anger Management   Management is an art of getting things done through application of various resources. It helps an individual and   the organization in accomplishing desired goals and the objectives through application of its different tools and technique. So a good management assures of positive and fruitful results. The way a good management can turn a bankrupt organization into profit making body similarly our personal life can also be changed from heaven to hell and vice versa through the anger management. One side anger management can help in shaping ones personality on the other hand have enough potential to distort it too. What is anger management ? Dictionary says ‘ Anger management is the process of learning to recognize signs that you're becoming angry, and taking action to calm down and deal with the situation in a positive way. Anger management doesn't try to keep you from feeling anger or encourage you to hold it in. Anger is a normal, healthy emotion wh...

Doing Good – Feeling Better What does ‘doing good’ mean ? Is making others happy ‘ doing good’ ? or the acts which one does for one’s own happiness is ‘ doing good’. It has different meaning for  the different people, some may have better feeling by sharing their happiness with others on the other hand some have better feeling by hurting others, gratify themselves by harming. Why such evil minded do it because they attach themselves immensely to the worldly needs and since all of us have same priorities therefore scuffle begins to get portion from the worldly needs which one side causes hardship and problems for some on the other hand give better feeling to others. This is general phenomena. But one thing is clear that the secret behind ‘ feeling better is ‘ doing good’. When one feels good , happy it increases immunity inside in that proportion that body can easily fight against viral attacks. All of us like to feel better accordingly everyone tries to take steps i...

Tough Job Right or wrong interpretation is the root cause of all conflicts. Our perception, discern ability about subjects and the issues determine as to what kind of interpretation likely comes to the fore. Impacts of an interpretation does not confine to an individual but affects our whole surroundings. Hence it is often seen that an interpreter while interpreting either has positive or negative outlook over the subjects, farsightedness or narrowness in depicting the issue or have lack of perception which either   becomes bone of contention or works constructively. One side, emergence of specific school of thought and division in society on the basis of cast and creed is the result of interpretation on the other side bridge of friendship and bonding is also result of the same interpretation. Great amount of discern ability, perspicacity   and perception is required for the right interpretation of arts, quote, text, but it is often seen that   sometimes peopl...

Short Letters Dear Praful, You must have been thinking that I have forgotten you. No, I have not forgotten . Even though circumstances and time have not let our friendship continue, I still very much cherish those pleasant moments  we had spent together. I would not like to blame anyone and you must also be realizing the fact that friendship we had , could not have lasted longer because in that environment, emotions, sentiments, sacrifice are big hurdle in continuing our relationship. Shrewdness, alacrity and cheating are very much required for its survival. Unfortunately you did not have those traits inside you. I could not raise my voice or revolt for the injustice done to you which later causes of our breakup. I remained just a mute spectator because this has been my destiny right from the days I opened my eyes. Remember, so many times you turned your face away in anger but whenever you came back you found me standing with you. I never mind because I knew your traits ...

Prayer Prayer is simply defined a medium of expression of trust, It connects with the things one believes in. It is also a parameter through which ones devotion and dedication towards a belief is ascertained. Precursor of different types of beliefs set norms as to how to offer prayer in order to connect with the invisible power that is why various kinds of prayer are prevalent and it is offered in different ways. Some say prayer is medium to connect with God, some say it is acknowledgement of superiority of invisible almighty, some term it the best way of attaining peace from restlessness. But this is fact that it is the prayer which gives us satisfaction, everlasting peace and happiness. Our every act which  doesn’t hurt fellow creatures is Prayer. There can not be a better prayer than those deeds which bring peace and happiness in and around. God is the product of human’s heart so it always keep visiting around the human’s heart, our silence, our hue and cry, our laugh in s...

                   Faith & Belief Belief is the first step towards building of various kind of relationship it also plays significant role in connecting not only individuals but also in establishing everlasting relationship between creator and creatures. Search of mysteries, enigmas and their solutions take human beings to a particular belief even though solutions of all the questions which arises in mind never satisfy everyone that is why   beliefs of different kind take place but one thing is certain that the person who is true believer dedicated and devoted to his belief is never let disappointed, perhaps a commitment by nature to a true believer. Human intelligence is still not competent enough to solve the riddle and even unable to reach on stature to disapprove the veracity of other beliefs. Belief is in fact a cornerstone of path on which a person can travel his journey of...

Exploitation Main causes of human sufferings right from the inception of civilization have been the wrath of nature and the atrocities of one human on another. Human suffering due to the result of nature’s calamities   have been being reduced by humankind itself with the passage of time on the other side human sufferings by the hands of one human on other still continues. The way cold wave, heat wave, flooding, storms are part of environment which directly or indirectly effects adversely to all the living beings on earth especially to human beings similarly a person who possesses similar traits of coolness, heat, flooding and storm in his nature that varies from person to person   directly or indirectly effects social environment and sufferers of this traits are none other but human itself.   Nature is believed to be the most powerful and lone creator of all on earth so it controls over all living or non living creatures. No creatures on earth have been imparte...

A small effort Social compulsion, emulation, competition in surroundings, willing to surpass others in pursuit of materialistic race in fact determine the destiny and these are undeniable realities of our lives. Very few are able to reach on the threshold of  desired destiny which they decide for themselves otherwise majority of them get strayed in the way or concede defeat eventually. This is the fact that we either impose the things upon ourselves or coerced to adopt  the things due to pressure of circumstances and incidence because we lack enough determination to deter those elements which later on become instrumental in making our destiny. Sometimes we are coerced to follow others, Sometimes we get fascinated by glittering in surroundings and  begin to follow it blindly without doing self assessment. In fact, imitating or following footsteps of winner is not wrong, competing others in achieving the goal is not wrong  but at the same time we should also acce...

Never Give Up Journey of life is not smooth sailing it is fraught with full of uncertainty, excitement, mixture of happiness and sorrow, ups and down, hope and disappointment, obstacles. Some of us enjoy this journey with determination bearing in mind the truth that journey of life is like rolling coin, failures and success are the two sides of it. Circumstances and situations keep tossing the coin every now and then nobody knows which side coins take a turn. Some of us compete bravely the circumstances and the situation in order to control and dictate the movement of that dancing coin. We come across many moments in day to day life when one feels crestfallen, defeated, sometimes attainment of even simple goal and target looks an impossible work, sometimes quitting the plan in the mid seems to be the last option, negativity begins to subjugate the positive outlook. On this very moment, there is a need to demolish the foundation of negativity which begins to take a shape in a c...

Rough Page   Art of acquisition of power and authority, Tug of war to dominate and control over the situation, Setting up formal and informal relationship with two individuals or more in society to achieve particular goals, manipulation in surroundings in order to gain power and status, a well planned conspiracy during the power struggle by either bamboozling or forcing, and so many such other activities of individuals, group of individuals and an organization come under the circumference of definition of politics. That is why it can be said with conviction that not even a single department of human life is untouched from politics. Aristotle had said ‘Man is by nature a political animal.’ Hence this very behaviors of people had produced political scientists in surroundings who engross in to observe the behavior of not only person but also about the     organization and accordingly they came out with ideas and findings and also even with a new solution of conflict wh...

Bharat Mata   Ki ! It is neither wrong if one says Jai   in reply to call of Bharat Mata Ki   nor it is completely appropriate to refuse it just for the reason that it is the slogan raised by   those who are against their faiths and beliefs. Mata is not only the most beautiful word but it is replete with great feeling of love, affection, sacrifice which can hardly any others give. The relation of mother with the children is unexplainable it can only be felt and no one from any religion can deny to this fact. Mata   is in fact an emblem of justice who sees all their children in equal way and even after facing great trouble foster them without any prejudice. Linking up Bharat with the word Mata   is in fact result of   her love to the people who are born brought up, get fostered so needless to say that it becomes responsibility of all of us to give reverence to her. But irony is that this Bharat Mata   can not speak directly but express ...

Kament     There is an adage ‘ if you try to please all, will please none'. So whenever budget was placed by any party  in parliament it hardly satisfied all section of society. Feedback of recent budget is almost same as some are giving it a pass marks, some are giving even less than pass marks but ruling party have claimed to have got a distinction and patting on their back saying wah, wah budget.   Why this budget is different from the past is because in this budget, development of rural sectors have been specifically taken into consideration through investment in infrastructure, electrification, water, irrigation, and so on. The way ruling party have intruded in rural sectors it must have stunned some of the opposition who have strong base in villages. That is why a prominent opposition leader said that this government has majority which no government has had in thirty years. Perhaps he wanted to say that they had also brought same budget...

                                                                     Straight View – in few words It is very difficult to define true meaning of patriotism but present situation of   the country is redefining the meaning of   patriotism because Kashmir is being made a parameter to assess the patriotism, because raising a voice against injustice is tantamount of an act of betrayal, because image of an institution of secular credential is being tarnished that have been giving policy makers to the country. Politics on patriotism is now a new issue of present regime and perhaps one of the strongest weapons to wipe out those who differ ...

Point of View Or Just Kidding We believe in oneness in God and His omnipotence and when we say   that ‘ Zarre Zarre Mein Khuda Ka Noor Hai’, ‘Kan Kan Mein Hai Jhanki Bhagwan Ki.’ It   shows our belief of His omnipresence. On the other hand scientists are in search of physical presence of what and where god exactly is. Their this quest of mystery take them to finding of ‘God’s particle and their belief that perhaps this god’s particles might have created universe through big bang’ Quran says ‘Don’t despair from the blessings of God.’ Hence we have to believe that His blessings are not confined only to believers but even for non believers too. That is why people who have either religious belief or not, succeed in getting blessings in form of their sumptuous wisdom to understand the mystery of existence of god.    At times we acknowledge the existence of god on the basis of supernatural incidence. We begin to believe in existence of that super nature power ...