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Suspicions, Misgivings, Lack of trust  pervade into mind of one  human being to another  because of dearth of immunity which a  brain  needs acutely in order to  resist  attack of such evils. A person gets affected from  disease due to deficiency of immunity in his body similarly your brain gets ill because of  dearth of  specific positive ingredients  which work like forte that deter the effort of such evils entering in to mind. Self Evaluation and make plan accordingly, Rational based ambition, Self belief etc are some of the positive  ingredient which work like tonic for mind. High thinking is not wrong,  Ambition to achieve something is not wrong, but before it first  see fundamental of brain,  have you prepared your brain or made them strong enough  to achieve the things what you dream of. Mind gets weak in absence of positive ingredients hence gradually mind gets trapped by the force which  spreads their tentacles inside.

If you fail in achieving something  you attribute your failure to some things, someone on which you have control,  You begin to suspect on other for your failures, you find other hands in your  failure instead of  evaluation yourselves.  You attribute your failures on evil eye of others .in fact perception of evil eye  from here only emerge  in mind ,since due to lack of positive ingredients, you make your brain den of  evil hence you  see the things in brain,s eye and give blame on others.

If you gets bankrupt you accuse other of yours state, you don't realize that  you couldn't handle the situation to save yourself  from being bankrupt.  You lack the  strategies, and traits which  play significant  part in making someone bankrupt.  You   loose your temperament, get corrupted, even if  you succeed in taking revenge but  you forget that if you would have given same effort in rebuilding yourself you feel more satisfactory since people of such types who are instrumental in bankrupting others gets treated in same way by others who are more powerful. Weak mind has to suffer more in pursuit of  retaliate since at point of time it boomeranged.

Headstrong  people bear the situation since they understand their shortcomings, spends their precious time to rectify short comings on the other hand various kind of negative thought such as suspicions, misgivings, treachery,  begins to take birth in mind of people of weak mentality  which not only make their mind dirt, but mar the social fabrics, spread dirt in surroundings, such dirt succeed in taking secure place into the minds of those who need tonic of self evaluation, self belief. It is wrong to say that an idle man,s mind is devil work shop. Intact ignorant, illiterate man,s mind is devil workshop. Ignorant gets trapped easily by the  negative elements since they lack ability to think the things in broad perspective.

If Your boyfriend leaves you , get closed to one of your friends,  you naturally blame on your friend for  hatching conspiracy. Your doubt may be right. At the same time it  gives chance for self introspection,  evaluate yourself, find out the short comings which forced your boyfriend to abandon you, even  you think that  you had excelled in all dpts over your friend, you must be happy that your friend is propitious he saved you from being friend of stupid boy. Instead of mucking of mind you should try to make way out and should keep in search of new opportunity. Some gets depressed, some commits suicide, take destructive steps, it occurs because you have not prepared your mind to face such things  you have to come across in your life. You say spending life is very tough, even after giving your full effort you are not achieving your purpose. Believe in yourself, find out things you lack in achieving your purpose. You can have power to make it easy, you can spend your life easily provided that you realize your shortcomings, give your effort to rectify your shortcomings, think positively on every setback. you will see the change.

Imposing your shortcoming on other is natural since your mind was cherished, watered by the surroundings where accusation and counter accusation are normal, you are part of it thereby you begin to think in same way, in same style. This is not your fault, your thinking is the result of same social fabrics wherein you have opened your eyes hence  environment has prepared your mind accordingly.

If something untoward happens with you, you blame on your close one for this,  evil eye and so on . People whom you underestimate or overestimate  make place in your sensibility, you envisioned them in your brain, your brain  begin to link your happy or sad incidents with them. When you came across sad incidents you blame on people you underestimates, you forget the people who are enjoying  on your stupidity sitting in your brain. Later you begin to start in your mission to harm those you think responsible, you forget that your brain is fully controlled by the elements who made upper place in your thought.

If a woman gives birth to child who has defect in leg, She begins to curse her handicapped  neighbor for her evil eye. She forgets that  she is also  craziest fan of  Michael Jordon. Instead of getting involved in blame game, you should  accept the thing happening around, give your effort to make new  way for  yourself if straight path is  choked and blocked.

Frustration, taking hazardous step, harming others  are not solution of your  problem. You should try to bring your mind in positive state, your mind controls  every parts of your body, it has power to give your physics in new shape, new hope. Never let your mind be subjugated  by negative thoughts.

Don't expose others shortcomings instead search out the shortcomings  you have inside which may harm you in future, prepare your mind to cop up the future, don't forget  some are also  around lurking to expose you
You should also learn  to give a bit sacrifice, your aspiration , your expectation, your ambition  because these are the things which make your mind corrupt, thereby corrupt your surroundings, make your life hell and also make others life hell. You should  endeavor  to gulp down anger for the sake of your betterment and welfare of people around.

if you want to emulate those who are successful in their lives, try to emulate also the sacrifice  they had given in achieving their targets. In order to materialize your ambition , be positive,  evaluate yourself,  quite negative thoughts, keep yourself away from company which may hinder your plan, never involve in the things which jeopardize your  ambition only then you shall be able to achieve your target. If you have misgivings, anger against some, quit this attitude, sanctify your mind, your heart because these are things which dirt your mind.

'TrinTrin, TrinTrin, TrinTrin' Alarm of clock awake Sharief

Sharief  turned to his left, switched off the alarm of clock..He  remained silent for a moment lieng on bed. He looked around inside the room. He smiled having combed his head from tips of fingers. Sharief  mumbled  'What a pleasant dream.' He closed his eyes to figure out the face, an obscure face, he saw in his  dream. He opens  his eye, sat on bed He mumbled again,'  Keep coming, my dear unknown  motivator. I love you'

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