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One of the realities.... Despite realizing the fact that each one of us makes one's own strategies, planning at one’s own level in order to control the circumstances which directly or indirectly may affect daily life. Sometimes we do succeed in overcoming the circumstances and sometimes we find ourselves helpless before the circumstances. Sometimes things take a turn in such a way that our all strategies and planning, self confidence and endeavor lose their significance. Sometimes even our calculated and well planned efforts give such disappointing results which we had never expected. Consequently we get frustrated, stressed, and eventually reach on a stage when sadness completely subjugates us. Even though we leave no stone unturned in finding out the reasons, shortcomings, flaws for our plight and frustration and to an extent we also do succeed in identifying some of the weak streaks which causes of our stress ‘ unpredictability in life’ is also one of the streaks and rea...

Anger Management   Management is an art of getting things done through application of various resources. It helps an individual and   the organization in accomplishing desired goals and the objectives through application of its different tools and technique. So a good management assures of positive and fruitful results. The way a good management can turn a bankrupt organization into profit making body similarly our personal life can also be changed from heaven to hell and vice versa through the anger management. One side anger management can help in shaping ones personality on the other hand have enough potential to distort it too. What is anger management ? Dictionary says ‘ Anger management is the process of learning to recognize signs that you're becoming angry, and taking action to calm down and deal with the situation in a positive way. Anger management doesn't try to keep you from feeling anger or encourage you to hold it in. Anger is a normal, healthy emotion wh...

Doing Good – Feeling Better What does ‘doing good’ mean ? Is making others happy ‘ doing good’ ? or the acts which one does for one’s own happiness is ‘ doing good’. It has different meaning for  the different people, some may have better feeling by sharing their happiness with others on the other hand some have better feeling by hurting others, gratify themselves by harming. Why such evil minded do it because they attach themselves immensely to the worldly needs and since all of us have same priorities therefore scuffle begins to get portion from the worldly needs which one side causes hardship and problems for some on the other hand give better feeling to others. This is general phenomena. But one thing is clear that the secret behind ‘ feeling better is ‘ doing good’. When one feels good , happy it increases immunity inside in that proportion that body can easily fight against viral attacks. All of us like to feel better accordingly everyone tries to take steps i...

Tough Job Right or wrong interpretation is the root cause of all conflicts. Our perception, discern ability about subjects and the issues determine as to what kind of interpretation likely comes to the fore. Impacts of an interpretation does not confine to an individual but affects our whole surroundings. Hence it is often seen that an interpreter while interpreting either has positive or negative outlook over the subjects, farsightedness or narrowness in depicting the issue or have lack of perception which either   becomes bone of contention or works constructively. One side, emergence of specific school of thought and division in society on the basis of cast and creed is the result of interpretation on the other side bridge of friendship and bonding is also result of the same interpretation. Great amount of discern ability, perspicacity   and perception is required for the right interpretation of arts, quote, text, but it is often seen that   sometimes peopl...

Short Letters Dear Praful, You must have been thinking that I have forgotten you. No, I have not forgotten . Even though circumstances and time have not let our friendship continue, I still very much cherish those pleasant moments  we had spent together. I would not like to blame anyone and you must also be realizing the fact that friendship we had , could not have lasted longer because in that environment, emotions, sentiments, sacrifice are big hurdle in continuing our relationship. Shrewdness, alacrity and cheating are very much required for its survival. Unfortunately you did not have those traits inside you. I could not raise my voice or revolt for the injustice done to you which later causes of our breakup. I remained just a mute spectator because this has been my destiny right from the days I opened my eyes. Remember, so many times you turned your face away in anger but whenever you came back you found me standing with you. I never mind because I knew your traits ...

Prayer Prayer is simply defined a medium of expression of trust, It connects with the things one believes in. It is also a parameter through which ones devotion and dedication towards a belief is ascertained. Precursor of different types of beliefs set norms as to how to offer prayer in order to connect with the invisible power that is why various kinds of prayer are prevalent and it is offered in different ways. Some say prayer is medium to connect with God, some say it is acknowledgement of superiority of invisible almighty, some term it the best way of attaining peace from restlessness. But this is fact that it is the prayer which gives us satisfaction, everlasting peace and happiness. Our every act which  doesn’t hurt fellow creatures is Prayer. There can not be a better prayer than those deeds which bring peace and happiness in and around. God is the product of human’s heart so it always keep visiting around the human’s heart, our silence, our hue and cry, our laugh in s...

                   Faith & Belief Belief is the first step towards building of various kind of relationship it also plays significant role in connecting not only individuals but also in establishing everlasting relationship between creator and creatures. Search of mysteries, enigmas and their solutions take human beings to a particular belief even though solutions of all the questions which arises in mind never satisfy everyone that is why   beliefs of different kind take place but one thing is certain that the person who is true believer dedicated and devoted to his belief is never let disappointed, perhaps a commitment by nature to a true believer. Human intelligence is still not competent enough to solve the riddle and even unable to reach on stature to disapprove the veracity of other beliefs. Belief is in fact a cornerstone of path on which a person can travel his journey of...

Exploitation Main causes of human sufferings right from the inception of civilization have been the wrath of nature and the atrocities of one human on another. Human suffering due to the result of nature’s calamities   have been being reduced by humankind itself with the passage of time on the other side human sufferings by the hands of one human on other still continues. The way cold wave, heat wave, flooding, storms are part of environment which directly or indirectly effects adversely to all the living beings on earth especially to human beings similarly a person who possesses similar traits of coolness, heat, flooding and storm in his nature that varies from person to person   directly or indirectly effects social environment and sufferers of this traits are none other but human itself.   Nature is believed to be the most powerful and lone creator of all on earth so it controls over all living or non living creatures. No creatures on earth have been imparte...

A small effort Social compulsion, emulation, competition in surroundings, willing to surpass others in pursuit of materialistic race in fact determine the destiny and these are undeniable realities of our lives. Very few are able to reach on the threshold of  desired destiny which they decide for themselves otherwise majority of them get strayed in the way or concede defeat eventually. This is the fact that we either impose the things upon ourselves or coerced to adopt  the things due to pressure of circumstances and incidence because we lack enough determination to deter those elements which later on become instrumental in making our destiny. Sometimes we are coerced to follow others, Sometimes we get fascinated by glittering in surroundings and  begin to follow it blindly without doing self assessment. In fact, imitating or following footsteps of winner is not wrong, competing others in achieving the goal is not wrong  but at the same time we should also acce...

Never Give Up Journey of life is not smooth sailing it is fraught with full of uncertainty, excitement, mixture of happiness and sorrow, ups and down, hope and disappointment, obstacles. Some of us enjoy this journey with determination bearing in mind the truth that journey of life is like rolling coin, failures and success are the two sides of it. Circumstances and situations keep tossing the coin every now and then nobody knows which side coins take a turn. Some of us compete bravely the circumstances and the situation in order to control and dictate the movement of that dancing coin. We come across many moments in day to day life when one feels crestfallen, defeated, sometimes attainment of even simple goal and target looks an impossible work, sometimes quitting the plan in the mid seems to be the last option, negativity begins to subjugate the positive outlook. On this very moment, there is a need to demolish the foundation of negativity which begins to take a shape in a c...

Rough Page   Art of acquisition of power and authority, Tug of war to dominate and control over the situation, Setting up formal and informal relationship with two individuals or more in society to achieve particular goals, manipulation in surroundings in order to gain power and status, a well planned conspiracy during the power struggle by either bamboozling or forcing, and so many such other activities of individuals, group of individuals and an organization come under the circumference of definition of politics. That is why it can be said with conviction that not even a single department of human life is untouched from politics. Aristotle had said ‘Man is by nature a political animal.’ Hence this very behaviors of people had produced political scientists in surroundings who engross in to observe the behavior of not only person but also about the     organization and accordingly they came out with ideas and findings and also even with a new solution of conflict wh...

Bharat Mata   Ki ! It is neither wrong if one says Jai   in reply to call of Bharat Mata Ki   nor it is completely appropriate to refuse it just for the reason that it is the slogan raised by   those who are against their faiths and beliefs. Mata is not only the most beautiful word but it is replete with great feeling of love, affection, sacrifice which can hardly any others give. The relation of mother with the children is unexplainable it can only be felt and no one from any religion can deny to this fact. Mata   is in fact an emblem of justice who sees all their children in equal way and even after facing great trouble foster them without any prejudice. Linking up Bharat with the word Mata   is in fact result of   her love to the people who are born brought up, get fostered so needless to say that it becomes responsibility of all of us to give reverence to her. But irony is that this Bharat Mata   can not speak directly but express ...

Kament     There is an adage ‘ if you try to please all, will please none'. So whenever budget was placed by any party  in parliament it hardly satisfied all section of society. Feedback of recent budget is almost same as some are giving it a pass marks, some are giving even less than pass marks but ruling party have claimed to have got a distinction and patting on their back saying wah, wah budget.   Why this budget is different from the past is because in this budget, development of rural sectors have been specifically taken into consideration through investment in infrastructure, electrification, water, irrigation, and so on. The way ruling party have intruded in rural sectors it must have stunned some of the opposition who have strong base in villages. That is why a prominent opposition leader said that this government has majority which no government has had in thirty years. Perhaps he wanted to say that they had also brought same budget...

                                                                     Straight View – in few words It is very difficult to define true meaning of patriotism but present situation of   the country is redefining the meaning of   patriotism because Kashmir is being made a parameter to assess the patriotism, because raising a voice against injustice is tantamount of an act of betrayal, because image of an institution of secular credential is being tarnished that have been giving policy makers to the country. Politics on patriotism is now a new issue of present regime and perhaps one of the strongest weapons to wipe out those who differ ...

Point of View Or Just Kidding We believe in oneness in God and His omnipotence and when we say   that ‘ Zarre Zarre Mein Khuda Ka Noor Hai’, ‘Kan Kan Mein Hai Jhanki Bhagwan Ki.’ It   shows our belief of His omnipresence. On the other hand scientists are in search of physical presence of what and where god exactly is. Their this quest of mystery take them to finding of ‘God’s particle and their belief that perhaps this god’s particles might have created universe through big bang’ Quran says ‘Don’t despair from the blessings of God.’ Hence we have to believe that His blessings are not confined only to believers but even for non believers too. That is why people who have either religious belief or not, succeed in getting blessings in form of their sumptuous wisdom to understand the mystery of existence of god.    At times we acknowledge the existence of god on the basis of supernatural incidence. We begin to believe in existence of that super nature power ...

Incredible - India Sometimes question emerges in mind which is incredible, Universe or its Creator. when we look at astonishing infinite twinkling stars in the sky, infinite marvels on earth in form of high mountains, seas, dense forests, green fields, innumerable living creatures and others innumerable beauties of nature around and the foremost thing is the way all have been being crafted beautifully by its creator undoubtedly dumbfound human mind and the word ‘Incredible’ spontaneously comes out from our mouth. Our eagerness to go in deep in search of enigma as to how all came into existence and who was the real craftsman is different matter but one thing is sure enough that whoever made it is more than incredible.   Nowadays question is emerging in mind what is Incredible India. ? Answer simply comes into our mind about a great ancient civilization, greatest democracy in world, people of multi-colored, a nation of multi culture, a country of multi language and religio...

                           Freedom of Expression It is human nature which demands freedom in all walks of life instead of being slaved of any kind in the hands of anyone. But fact of the matter is that the system we live in neither allows freedom of all type to all nor let it remain any one slave forever of all type. Freedom in true words is not only a power but also a step forward medium to attain more control, more power therefore one leaves no stone unturned in order to achieve it albeit different means are taken to get different types of freedom. Almighty which we call supreme share its freedom in proportion among its creature making them a bit mighty to run the system. This is called delegation of authority but irony of this share of power is that such so called mighty begins to abuse that freedom.      Freedom of Expression is o...