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                                                                Chapter – 12


This incident provided enough materials to Avinash  who know begun to concentrate prodding him on his  bachelor status. Nisar was already getting bothered over  the deterrence he was having to face,hence new comment regarding his marriage would sometimes irritate him but sometimes he would accept thinking it reality. Nisar had no point to comment on him or pull him since Avinash just begun  his career so discuusing on his personal life seemed irrational.

During one night Avinash and Nisar were  sitting for dinner.

"Frankly speaking , I have no intention to hurt you.But you should have married by now.' Avinash said opening his tiffin.

' Where is matter of hurt ? Secondly you have become my friend so you have right to ask. But can I ask one thing ? Nisar replied pouring water in glasses.

' Yes, sure,' Avinash replied making a morsel

'Suddenly you have changed your concern from  my unemployed status to my marriage.' Nisar said smiling'

'Because when I first saw you I thought you married and recent incident which occurred with your colleague coerced me raise the issue.?

' Listen me carefully, a girl who looks beautiful and reaches on threshold of  adulthood are deemed to be marriageable and supposed to be eligible in other eyes.'

, Why did you specify the beautiful.' Avinash frowned his face

' Because beauty attracts others attention.,' Are you not attracted to beauty.' Nisar asked

' What about others who are not beautiful.'

' They are of course marriageble but had to face in coming in eligible criteria.'

,' Why are you stretching the topic? Tell about yourself.,' Avinash said

I am coming to point. Similarly it happens with boys  if one has no financial security he is not considered BEAUTIFUl  thus they are not  enumerated in eligible criteria. As far as I am concerned  even after jostling, struggling so much and even now I could not become ELIGIBLE BACHELOR since that BEAUTY kept on playing hide and seek game with me.'

''If you perceive  that financial security is beauty  of boy then in our religion girl is considered LAXMI  a tantamount to BEAUTY as per your doctrine. Girl ie Laxmi brings prosparity and happiness, BEAUTY which a boy can adore  even after marriage. 'Avinash retorted showing his  knowledge about the matter.

In our religion also same concept emerges when a boy remains bachelor, but clever defends  himself by referring the sayings of Prophet Mohammed ( peace be upon him )who once told his one follower to marry if he finds pros parity and happiness. He also directed to his followers to marry his daughter/son when they reach on adulthood if they commit sin of type which is unacceptable in our society, their guradians will be responsible for their omission. But nowadays parents outsmart such sayings of prophet when they think marriage of their daughters.' Nisar said washing his hand on basin .

Have your not been ever forced to marry when you would visit at your home" Avinash prodded

"Yes, Ammi once told me  when i had  visited 9 years back when  Abba was alive. That  day I was sitting alone with her when she asked me caressing my head.

“Ab Tumhari shaadi ki umar ho gaee hai . if you like any of the girls  tell me i shall talk to her parents'

' I shall marry in relatives.' I replied

' OK Who is that girl'  She digged out

" I shall tell about her but first let me stand on my foot" I replied

" Beta ,  Naukri wagera to hoti rahegi" See how your friends are getting  married and you are still waiting for right time" She tried to convince me.

"why don’t you mention those who are older than me and still are unmarried" I retorted

“Have you seen Simran. She looks good ?  Ammi said

' Kaun,  Wo dilwale dulhaniya le jayenge wali '

"Be serious, I am talking about  Daughter of Nemat ,' She said earnestly.

" Yes, she is good looking,' but I should also look good '

' What is wrong in you, ' Ammi asked

'I am talking about beauty  'a permanent  secured job'

'Everything will become fine once you get married. See Farhan, Nishant , Ali  How they got settled down after marriage. Inshalla you will also settle" Ammi said confidently.

'Did you get the view of her parents and his other guardians ,foremost thing is that I am not  yet settled

Nisar,s mother  was in fact sincere about his marriage but it was he who every time avoided. How would he tell her that even after spending years outside he couldn’t become eligible bachelor.  who can give   his daughter happily to boy who is financial insecure Nisar  was practical  he knew about the  situation emerged after  marriage where parents take the responsibility and later they have to face the nonsense sarcasm of their daughter in laws.

Fact was that in order to make his mother happy  he  kept on coinciding  on her every wishes But his  priority was to get a  secure job. Plan of marriage  was out  of his imagination those days. Nisar doesn't know whether she  talked to parents of that girl  or not. But after  about one year, Nisar's mother  informed when  he called  her that Simran was getting married. Nisar didn't mind since  she was his mother's choice.  Nisar 's choice was open for which he had been still struggling and perhaps she has  also now turned her face away from him.



                                                    

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